I made a social faux pas that still wakes me up at 3 a.m. with a full-body cringe. It happened 15 years ago, and I’m still spiraling about it. My friend Brooke (not her real name because I’m not about to make the same mistake twice) had weight-loss surgery. She’d been saving for years; it was going to help with serious health problems and, she hoped, help her find love in a world that equates thin with beautiful and beautiful with lovable (the saddest math equation ever). She told me because she needed someone to help her until her mom could arrive, and I’m nothing if not a good helper. She specifically asked me not to tell anyone. She wanted to surprise our friends with a big reveal. I told someone. Why? I was so excited for her that I couldn’t wait to share the good news. Her good news. Of course, that friend told another friend, and it wasn’t long before everyone knew. Brooke was crushed—and then, devastatingly, she forgave me . Graciously and quickly, which is honestly the wors...
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