While it seems straightforward enough, it turns out that giving a strong toast involves much more than simply standing up and saying whatever pleasantries come to mind. “The perfect toast is short, funny, and heartfelt,” says Patricia Napier-Fitzpatrick, founder and president of The Etiquette School of New York . According to Napier-Fitzpatrick, a successful toast requires practice, is about three minutes long, and follows a specific structure. With New Year’s Eve upon us, make sure you’re prepared to raise your glass by knowing exactly how to give a toast speech. 1. Follow t his formula. The contents of your toast should include a hook, a bit of background (“why you’re giving the toast or how you are connected to the person you are toasting,” Napier-Fitzpatrick says), a story, and a finish. In terms of the story, Napier-Fitzpatrick says that you can share one or two funny anecdotes, but do not embarrass anyone or make guests uncomfortable. Watch out for these table etiquette mist