I consider myself a small-talk connoisseur. We moved a lot when I was a kid, so I had to get good at connecting with strangers quickly or else no one would have shown up to my birthday parties. Now, as an adult, I’m always down to discuss road construction, light news and even the weather (honestly, there’s so much to say about it these days!). Of course, there are times when small talk gets stuck in the “How are you? I’m fine. How are you?” death spiral, but I’d argue that’s just small talk done badly. Not everyone agrees with me—in fact, some people are even calling for the end of small talk, saying that it can be impersonal, a waste of time and even rude. So I decided to spend a whole day skipping small talk and just opening with whatever deep conversation topic was on my mind. Here’s how it went: To a friend at the gym: “Hey, how are the testosterone injections going? What’s your sperm count at now?” To a cashi...
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