During conversations with a particularly verbose friend, I’ve often realized I haven’t really been listening. She’ll ask me a question , my wandering mind will suddenly snap back to the present, and I’ll have no idea how to respond. My instinct is to cover up my mistake and pretend I heard what she said, but is that really the best strategy? It seems I need to learn how to be a better listener . We’ve probably all had a similar experience in which we’ve heard the words coming out of someone’s mouth without fully appreciating or understanding their meaning. “Often, we reflexively build solutions or tune out when we feel we’ve ‘heard it all before,’ causing us to miss vital nuances,” says conversation expert Debra Fine, author of The Fine Art of Small Talk . “Instead, practice staying fully present to absorb every word.” As a repeat offender, I asked Fine for some advice on listening. Read on to learn how to talk to anyone and truly give them your full attention. Get Reader’s Di...
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