Is It Really Rude to Tell Someone Who Asks Why You’re Not Drinking That It’s None of Their Business?
In Reader’s Digest ‘s new series “Is It Really Rude to…,” Charlotte Hilton Andersen tackles low-stakes etiquette questions from everyday life using a combination of her common sense and vast knowledge from writing 50-plus etiquette stories for this site. Have a situation you can’t stop ruminating on? Email us at advice@tmbi.com , or message Charlotte on Instagram at @charlottehiltonandersen . I was at a friend’s birthday party recently, holding my soda and minding my own business, when another guest—let’s call her Tipsy Tina, because she was several glasses of wine into the evening—loudly announced that she “won’t even talk to me” if I’m not drinking and that I’m “no fun.” In front of everyone. At a birthday party. She then informed the group that it was “really weird” that I’m an adult who doesn’t drink, not even a “tiny sip of champagne for a toast,” and demanded I give her a good reason why I don’t drink. I stood there, face burning, trying to decide if the appropriate response...